…this reward called Love.

LOVE…

This four-letters word may change your smile now… They can make your heart beats… They may make you cry or laugh… They can make you sigh… but every single time They will never make you calm. Sometimes I am thinking why people love each other and why they sacrifice their hours, minutes, moreover years to each other? Why they believe or keep their faith… keep their hearts open… do something what they do not like to do… spend time together… or life together. Why people smile and cry in souls… why they try to find the truth… why they compromise… why they forgive or leave one another alone…

… they want to find Love. Real Love.

We were in Noguchi Museum a few weeks ago and we did a picture of mountain but it looks like a shape of my or your heart. This sculpture was on the second floor and stand at the end of the room but when we came, it attracted me first… it was magnificent. It was the one colored sculpture in the room. Standing between grey, black and metal sculptures, this piece of Art or Love differed by this color… red stone. It caught our eyes and we came to it holding each other’s hands. It was an amazing feeling… It was the red stone and unpolished surface… It looked like we found a treasure in the grey-black world.   Don’t you think so? At this moment, I started to think about the shape, form and color of this “mountain” and I realized when two start to share a life together, they start to face with problems such as incomprehension or routine… jealousy or clash of views… give-and-takes and compromises; when I looked on this piece of stone, I was thinking that these problems are too complicated like this corrugated sides, and mountains are like obstacles to reach a pick and create harmony in a relationships. Some of us may give up on half of your way but some of others may fight with every-day routine and problems to reach this pick… to make your love stronger and feelings purer. Feeling harmony with your partner is the main goal of reaching this pick… and find love, especially in your own heart. Every-day life may destroy the reality and distort views but I believe that real feelings will never change…thru problems…thru time… thru life. If both want to change something, everything is possible. I truly believe in it. Sometimes it takes time to understand that love is an every-day hard work; it requires you to change your views and compromise to make other one happy. It force us to reconsider life views and prioritize your own goals. It requires us to be patient and respect your partner. It makes us to think twice before saying something or maybe offend your significant one. It makes us stronger but at the same time to feel by your heart leaving your brain away from it. This feeling gives us an ability to dream. And I believe that this feeling is still exist because…

…When You hold his/her hand and look into his/her eyes, the one thing that You want to say is “Thank You…” Thank you for the days… views from your side… smiles that make me happy.  Thank you that you are existing… Thank you that I can hold your hand and  quietly love you without words and unnecessary phrases… without proof of my feelings. Thank you for the purest emotions and melody in my heart every time when I am thinking about you. Just… Thank You.

Every time when I look on this picture, I was thinking about the steps that everybody has to make for happiness and calmness in his/her soul… but the reward is more important and dear than problems. This reward makes us smile and live… It makes us think and feel… It gives us an opportunity to fly and forgive… It takes anger away and shows the beauty of sunrise… When you open your eyes, you dream about a new day with a person you respect and adore. You start to observe loveliness of your surroundings and forget about negative thoughts… You feel a wings on the back, and this person mean a world for You. It is beautiful and almost every body want to have this reward…

…This reward called Love.

 

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